Aug 28

Surprise answers

Posted by Jody | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 28-08-2008

I don’t consider myself, what they call in the church world, a prayer warrior but I do pray for others.  Sometimes in my past I have been asked to pray for someone’s healing.  I have prayed over backs that have gotten better and once a buddy of mine had a hurt knee and when some of my friends and I prayed over him he had no pain the next day.  I kind of looked at it like  a 50/50 shot of someone getting better.  You know, maybe God will heal Him and maybe not, it’s all His choice.

I say this because I have prayed many times over my wife when she has been ill.  It seems that when I pray for her that He either doesn’t listen to me or it’s just something that she has to go through.  My wife gets this real bad cough every time she gets sick.  I mean like coughing 24/7 and you can’t sleep, your throat swells up, you choke, your ribs hurt, and cough medicine doesn’t even touch it!  When she was pregnant with Avery her body got so stressed that she couldn’t even carry full term.  It is stressful for everyone around the house and it takes her a long time to get well.

Yesterday she was trying to rest and actually got a little rest during the day when she had been up the whole night before.  As we were lying in bed talking she was lying real still not moving, afraid she might start coughing.  As soon as she got up she started with a full blown out coughing attack.  She couldn’t breathe and just started groaning, “no,no,no…”  She started crying because she was so worn out and tired of coughing.  After comforting her and calming her down she laid down and I started to pray for her.

Yes, your thinking is right, I didn’t want to because I was thinking, “What’s the use?”  I place my hands on her back and told God I believed He was healing her and to please let her rest and clear up this stuff that is making her cough.  She went to sleep and did not cough one time and slept all night till I had to get her up in the morning.  She has been good all day and is finally recovering.

So, I ask you, what was the difference this time?  Was it the belief that He would do it?  I think that’s part of it but I also believe that it was part of the hurt I carried for her and the wanting of to take this away from her as in I wish I could do the coughing for her.  It was  a totally empathetic moment and a belief in God along with knowing He loved her to.  The best part of it was to let her know that the reason she slept was because God put her to sleep.  Wouldn’t you like some of that lullaby action?

Aug 25

Always be Aware!

Posted by Jody | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 25-08-2008

Apostasy…Now that is strong word.  I mean, it is basically being a false teacher, leading people away from God instead of to Him.  As a pastor/teacher I am held to a higher responsibility than most.  That concerns me a lot.  No one wants to be accused of leading others astray.  And no one wants to have to face a God that is going to hold you responsible and accountable for it.

When I first became a pastor I was coming out of an age of self-discovery and of redefining who I am.  The greatest experience I had during this time, besides marrying my awesome wife, was getting a degree in Mental Health Counseling.  At that time I thought this was my way of helping people and I was good at it.  I actually had an act for it but now at the other end of the road I think it was as much for me as it was for others.  It helped me take a good look at myself and know who I am.

I am a sinner.  I am out for myself.  I like pleasing me.  I am just like everyone else…

Because of being able to see this more clearly I now can watch out for it all the more.  Which brings me back to that Apostasy word.

Everything I do now in ministry is tainted with questions; “What does it do for me?”, “How does it make me feel?”  “Who is this for?”

When I ask these questions it helps me weigh my motives and sets the path for decision making.  It also helps in talking with others because I am wondering about their motives as well.

If you are one of the cool people I work with let’s always be aware of our motives. If you are a leader be especially careful because we are also responsible for others.  Because at Oak Leaf you know what our call is; “Leading people from where they are to where God wants them to be.”  God wants them closer to Him and if we get in the way there will be consequences.

Aug 25

Journey Group Leaders Rising to the Occasion

Posted by Jody | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 25-08-2008

It was a cool site to see. There was a sea of black and white Journey Group T-shirts encircling the room.  There was excitement in the air and I must say that there was a sense of camaraderie among our leaders.  I felt like for the first time that they could see each other and they actually knew they were in this thing together with a bunch of other people just like themselves.  We are preparing for a fight here in Cartersville and we will go after those that need to be in a Journey Group.

We had about 50 cards turned in today which I thought was a real good number.  This was just the first day for sign ups and it is going to take a while for our folks to get use to seeing us out there and feel comfortable seeing us.  I suspect that we will have even a greater turn out over the next couple of weeks.  For about a third of our attenders the last month has been there first experience with Oak Leaf, so they are still trying to figure things out.

So here’s how we can help them.

I need the Journey Group Leaders to remember the first rule of ‘Reach’…Invite.   It is about you introducing yourselves to these people, getting to know names, finding things in common, and then asking them to your group.  It is that easy.  Your groups will grow as you begin to pray that God will put you in touch with those that need to be in your group then begin to look for those encounters.  Stop to say good morning when you walk by that face you don’t recognize.  These folks are waiting to see if we are the real deal.  They are waiting to see if we are going to be the church and not just play at church.

I am stoked about what is happening around here and I want to hear your stories about your encounters with these folks so make sure you send me your stories.

Josh Proctor and Mike Jenkins, thanks for jumping in this week and helping out at the House of Rock and for tearing down this week.  Your dedication shows in all you do.

Mike Mills, besides doing coffee all day thank you for stepping up and helping at the tables all day this Sunday, you are inspiring.

Coaches thanks for being there all day and hanging out with your leaders.

I would not want to be any where else than besides serving with you right here and now!

Aug 18

Sunday…tying up loose ends

Posted by Jody | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 18-08-2008

Besides being the Journey Group pastor at Oak Leaf I am currently the Campus Pastor at Carmike theaters where we meet on Sunday mornings.  Along with this comes all the great volunteers I have the opportunity serving with as well as all the free coffee I can drink :) .  This position requires us to begin the whole process of taking Oak Leaf from a one campus run church to a two campus functioning church.  There all sorts of unique challenges in doing this because we want to be one church in multiple locations.  Here are some of the things that we could use your help in if you are ready to take the challenge and serve with us here at Oak Leaf:

*  Crew folks – These are the people behind the scenes putting stuff together in the morning and tearing it all down in the afternoon.  They are responsible for all our Kidventure areas, lobby, stage, and anything technical.  You can contact me if you want to be a part of the front lines on Sunday morning.

*Kidventure volunteers – This is a group of people that are crazy about kids and are trying to make sure that they have a great time on Sunday morning as well as learn something about God.  There are opportunities available during all three hours of our Sunday morning.  You can contact Jonathan, our family pastor, if this sounds like you.

* Faces of Oak Leaf – I really don’t know another name that suits these guys because this is exactly what they are.  If you like to smile and are friendly then this is the place for you.  You can try your hand at being a greeter, check-in specialist, usher, security, information representative, and my favorite coffee person.  You can contact Mitch, our connections pastor, if this sounds like a fit for you.

The key here is don’t wait for us to ask because there is always a need for new volunteers.  This is not because we have a big turn over rate but it is a philosophy we have.  By serving, you are connecting to a place that is doing some amazing things in Cartersville.  This is the way to get to know others quickly and many rewarding relationships are built during this time.  If you have been thinking about it then here is your invite.

Come help us, “Lead people from where they are to where God wants them to be”.

Aug 04

A New Theme in my Life?

Posted by Jody | Posted in Uncategorized | Posted on 04-08-2008

Sometimes in  my life when God is getting me ready for a move, things seem to line up a little more.  I doubt seriously that it is just coincidence  and I am not one of those guys that looks for a hidden meaning in everything.

About a year before we moved up here to Georgia I was preparing for a sermon on Discovering God’s will.  At the same time we were anticipating on becoming the next campus for LifeChurch.tv.  So I started reading Craig Groeschel books trying to figure out where this guy is coming from and I read a book called Chazown.  This is a book about figuring out God’s will for your life.  It was during this time in my life that God began to show me what I was passionate about.  I knew at that time that LifeChurch.tv was the next step for me but it was definitely not the last one.

A year later it brings me to hear, Oak Leaf.  Coincidence?

Now lately I have had this thing for delving into the topic of truth.  I am reading a new book by John Macarthur called, The Truth War.  It is a defense against our postmodern era.  I am also preparing Journey Group Material for our TXT series which deals with the inherent Truth of the Bible.  I will also be preaching one week on why we can trust the Bible (because it its True).  Lastly, elections are not far off (where is the Truth?)  Coincidence?

We will have to find out.  Stay tuned for the results on this one…